It's sad to think this way but yes, scarcity is as real in our dating lives as it is in economics. He is very defensive and tries to cause fights, some even physical, like shoving me around. Counselor Gary Neuman asked cheating and non-cheating husbands about why they cheated. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. If you continue with him you are going to loose yourself, your are going to have trust issue eventually creating problems in the relationship. A lot changes when he goes from a single guy to a boyfriend. He looks at it.
Give the guy space to figure out his feelings, clear his head, and make important decisions.
Even though the guy I’m seeing has a girlfriend, he’s very attached to me
It could just be that he is not close to his family and does not have many friends but you should have at least had an introduction to his family over a telephone or Skype video call. To put it bluntly… guys cheat because the relationship was never their goal…it was the sex. However, it sounds like she is someone you can confide in and relate to — someone who can be there for you as you face the reality of your sexuality. Advertisement Was this step helpful? They lean into bachelorhood and would have a hard time giving it all up.