A better class of driver
Thoroughly Modern Motoring Ps&Qs
With a heritage dating back over two centuries, Debrett’s is the modern authority on etiquette and manners. Now Astra and Debrett’s team up to create the definitive guide to in-car etiquette
There is a right and proper way to behave behind the wheel – from being a good car host to protocol regarding music choice. To redefine driving for 21st century motorists, two quintessentially British brands have joined forces to publish Thoroughly Modern Motoring Manners from Debrett’s and Astra.
The book, published by Debrett’s and available from Amazon.co.uk, is the definitive guide to well-mannered motoring.
“It is important to mind your manners when you’re behind the wheel. Thoroughly Modern Motoring Manners aims to provide relevant and contemporary etiquette advice for today’s driver,” explained Jo Bryant, Etiquette Advisor at Debrett’s.
EXCERPTS FROM THOROUGHLY MODERN MOTORING MANNERS FROM ASTRA AND DEBRETT’S:
- On chivalry:
A chivalrous man will ensure that his female passenger is comfortable before the journey begins. He should offer to take her coat, check that her seat is adjusted and be sure that the temperature is to her liking.
She will expect her man to be a calm and competent driver. Any signs of aggression and she will most likely assume that in life – as well as behind the wheel – he is volatile and impatient.
A chivalrous passenger is as well-behaved and polite in the car as he is when he’s out and about. He realises that jokes about women drivers are clichéd and is never a backseat driver. He’s happy to sit back and enjoy the ride.
- On in-car entertainment:
Music should be carefully chosen and kept at a sociable volume. Save contentious remarks and heated discussions for non-mobile situations.
Unless you’re a karaoke-pro or trying to entertain the children, avoid singing along. Equally, save whistling for solo drives.
- On being the perfect host:
Sometimes your passengers will want to doze or daydream. Always respect their wishes – if they want to stay in their own world for the duration of the journey, let them.
- On being the perfect guest:
The driver is in control of the car and that extends to the controls of the stereo, temperature etc. Don’t adjust anything without asking first.
As a passenger, you don’t have to concentrate on the road. Engage in conversation, but be quiet during tricky manoeuvres and challenging situations.
- On fragrance fundamentals:
A car is a confined space, so think twice before spraying too much aftershave or perfume as you may overwhelm your fellow passengers.
- On being ladylike:
Smooth down your skirt. Keeping your knees together, swivel your body and swing your legs outwards. Place one foot down, keeping your knees together.
Dip your head and shoulders forward and slide and glide out of the car.
- For hat-wearers:
It’s good manners to remove your hat in the car, just as you would when entering a building.
dotSquared
April 9th, 2010
Oh hoorah for that! Everyone should read this book. I’m constantly amazed by how drivers think being in a steel box gives them privilege to be rude to other people! If you wouldn’t do or say it in a supermarket queue then don’t in your car! Happy driving.